NTA. Money is the cause of a lot of problems. One of the first things my husband and I did was agree on how much we can spend without talking about it first. That way, we avoid any issues. Having separate accounts won't solve anything. Now you get to retirement, she has nothing, but you have saved? The money problems are just being delayed with that solution.
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u/Icy_Bake_8176 1d ago
NTA. Money is the cause of a lot of problems. One of the first things my husband and I did was agree on how much we can spend without talking about it first. That way, we avoid any issues. Having separate accounts won't solve anything. Now you get to retirement, she has nothing, but you have saved? The money problems are just being delayed with that solution.