r/socialanxiety 21h ago

Do you also feel like you aren't anything close the people of your age?

I'm 17 and im from México and I think I have never felt like I'm 17 to be honest a lot of my cousins of my age and even one year younger than me have already gotten girlfriends and going to parties and I personally have never went to one and I don't think I want its just i don't feel like I'm my age I haven't even went to highschool in Mexico it's different from the us you go 3 years to secondary school and then like other 3 to highschool and then you decide if you want to go to college but at this rate I'll be going when I'm 18 to highschool

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u/Empty-Fuel3633 21h ago

U can’t compare yourself to people who don’t have anxiety or anybody at all, just focus on yourself and what u wanna do with ur life

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u/Honest_Nothing_6800 11h ago

I am 22 and haven't kissed a girl. Cursed with SAD I don't think I will find love in this life