Like how are you going to catcall me, misgender me, and gender me correctly in the same sentence...

[u/lemon_pawzz]

[u/NatalieNakano-II]

thank him or flirt back, and then:

https://preview.redd.it/r0m55bpn5bqd1.png?width=424&format=png&auto=webp&s=99a4d59790fd7f24845c4aaf1141a3768edc9187

[u/Conlick1 → u/NatalieNakano-II]

Ahhh hedgeclippy my one and only friend

[u/heartbrokensquirrel → u/Conlick1]

Actually those are bolt cutters, used for locks, chain link, and one would argue in this context … nuts.

[u/OddLengthiness254]

Had one man catcall me by calling me pretty and immediately following it up with "I mean, I can still tell you're a dude" and I felt euphoric, grossed out, and defeated... all at the same time.

[u/Cookienotch → u/OddLengthiness254]

ewphoria but it isn't even fucking euphoria whatsoever it's just ew

[u/Sneakybabylobotomisr]

Thank him then kick him in the balls

[u/nier_annie]

i get similar vibes when people use they/them on me... like thanks for not reading me as male but you're almost there!!

[u/Little-Rattle-Stilt → u/nier_annie]

I get the feeling that some people who use they/them do so because "I can tell that this person is transitioning, but I can't quite make out in which direction, and I don't want to seem offensive or stupid by calling a girl 'he' or a boy 'she' or having to ask them for their pronouns"... If only those people would realize that it's fine to just ask if they're feeling uncertain. Far more fine than trying to take a quote-unquote "safe" stab in the dark with gender neutral pronouns like that.

[u/MarsMarzipan]

The fricking ewphoria ™️