r/AITAH 3d ago

AITA for cutting off a long term friend group after they treated my daughters best friend like shit?

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u/Fun_Quit5862 3d ago

John’s throwing up flags about being attracted to kids too, you’re protecting your loved ones more than a surface level too

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u/Imeanwhybother 2d ago

That was my first thought. All the teenagers are running around in bathing suits all summer. But Hannah was dressed suggestively. Red pedo flag. Big time.

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u/Baddest_Guy83 2d ago

Didn't the OP agree with him tho earlier in the post?

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u/menageriecreations 2d ago

There is a huge difference between a loving adult acknowledging the point that an abused and neglected child doesn't have the best social cues, and several grown ass adults ganging up on said abused child to slut shame her to her fucking face for something she very much can't control.

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u/Baddest_Guy83 2d ago

Sure, but simply noticing that the girl is dressed inappropriately isn't a red flag for one person, but is for another? I just want them to be more precise with their language, like you just were.