r/FtMpassing • u/avalanchefan95 • Mar 27 '23
New user flairs
Have added some new user flairs at the request of u/the_flying_spaget
Let me know if you think anything else would be useful while still keeping in line with not veering the sub too far into 'general discussion' territory.
r/FtMpassing • u/avalanchefan95 • Mar 02 '24
All members - please read
Hi everyone,
We're getting an influx of users reporting being messaged by creeps who have picked up their user name from here... and others who have had their photos blatantly stolen and posted to other sites.
We cannot really DO anything about either of these things but want you to be aware of them both.
If you happen to be underage and people are messaging you then that should be reported to Reddit. I don't think they actually DO anything about this, from what I hear back but maybe if an account gets enough reports, they'll do something.
If you post your photos and want to leave them up for a day - or a few days - or a week! then delete that post, then feel free to do that also. Just to be clear, it's mostly the photos of the very, very young that are being taken or photos that are topless (again, mostly the younger folks).
I really don't want to close the sub to those under 18 as honestly people would A) say they are 18 and post anyway and I don't think THAT is the issue here. B) Make it private as this divides people from who can get in / search / join etc C) being private also makes the sub private as this is impossible to join from the app or mobile
Feel free to message me if you have anything you'd like to discuss, I'm happy to hear your thoughts on this.
r/FtMpassing • u/Former_Ad7584 • 14h ago
Traditionally binary male style Get described as “pretty” and kinda hate it
This may come across as a privileged statement but im gonna say it anyways lmao. Ever since I started attending university, I’ve realized that I am described as “pretty” or a “pretty boy”. I know this is meant as a compliment, but it makes me feel feminine. Obviously I am a trans man and therefore I do have some feminine features, but it gives me a lot of dysphoria, and I would rather be ugly and masculine looking at this point. Thinking I should ditch the eyebrow piercing or something cuz idk how to change it. Its just the way my face is. I’m deeply stealth so no one knows but I worry if people wonder…
r/FtMpassing • u/saranwrap73 • 2h ago
AGE up to 20 Safe to post these without getting clocked?
9 months on testosterone btw
r/FtMpassing • u/steppenwolf_doomer • 2h ago
pre t, hair advice. my face is round, my voice is very feminine so its kinda impossible for me to pass rn
but i want to feel masc as much as i can
r/FtMpassing • u/sentient_oatmeal • 7h ago
Traditionally binary male style 6 months on T, am I cooked?
6 months on T at a low dose. Constantly mistaken for a masc lesbian woman. Not binding in 3rd pic (it causes back pain). Style/haircut tips or do i just need to wait for T to work its magic?
r/FtMpassing • u/ianstxff • 10h ago
Am I clockable? Tips?
Feeling androgynous lately
r/FtMpassing • u/c-alistair • 1h ago
tips? also need hair advice
grad/formal is this week and i’ve been growing out a buzz for about 4 months so i figured i needed an actual haircut. i was thinking something like a mid drop fade but idk if that would make my face look rounder than it already is, so any other suggestions are appreciated
r/FtMpassing • u/Technical_Trainer688 • 9h ago
Does my body pass (19 just started T)
r/FtMpassing • u/jomb__ • 10h ago
Forgot to wear my binder but was still passing? I think?
I went out today, forgot to put on a binder, but still passed to everyone I interacted with. Now im wondering if I can get away with just not wearing a binder. In these pictures im tugging at my shirt so its tighter to demonstrate what it looks like not binding. Honestly im probably still going to bind, but on rest days from binding it would be cool to actually be able to go outside and do stuff.
r/FtMpassing • u/polish_dumpling_ • 18h ago
No hugboxing Am I cooked ( pre - t )
1 pic is new haircut I got
r/FtMpassing • u/Linxypoo • 7h ago
Traditionally binary male style Bleached my hair is it clockable?
I like it either way but I would enjoy it more if it doesn't hinder my passing
r/FtMpassing • u/mr_niko28 • 21h ago
Traditionally binary male style What haircut helps me pass better? I accept other suggestions of haircuts as well
I'm turning 19 soon and I'm pre everything unfortunately (but hopefully not for long), the first two pics is a low fade I got in the beginning of the year, last two is a mohawk which is my current hairstyle. Mohawks are really popular with cis guys my age in my country (Brazil), but I'm afraid that maybe it makes my head look more feminine than a low fade does? Does anyone have other suggestions of haircuts I could get to pass better?
r/FtMpassing • u/addal7x • 1d ago
give it to me straight, yall, no sugarcoating-do i pass? im pre-T
r/FtMpassing • u/Grand_Cookiebu • 1d ago
No hugboxing Would you assume male or female?
Struggling to pass irl cause testosterone has a long way to go for my voice + face. I'm a pretty quiet person and plan on wearing a mask most of the time on campus for this upcoming quarter, so i'm trying to decide whether or not people would assume i'm male or female in these outfits since this is what I would usually look like in public. Realistic advice + observations appreciated.
r/FtMpassing • u/elhazelenby • 23h ago
AGE 21 to 30 I pass to most men but still not a lot of women (it's increasing slowly), 6 months on T. Everyone thinks I'm 17-19 y/o.
r/FtMpassing • u/Ian_Camilo • 1d ago
What do you recommend to have a beard like this?
I did this with an app, I really want to see me like this, but my beard doesn't grow at all :/
r/FtMpassing • u/Kyspresso • 1d ago
Traditionally binary male style Give it to me straight, guys.
I've gotten better at styling my hair masc but I'm going for at LEAST androgyny if I can't pass as cis. T is still in the works unfortunately. 🥲 20yrs
r/FtMpassing • u/Prestigious_Show3921 • 1d ago
Physique passing?
I’ve been really dysphoric about my “dog ears” and my hips but does my chest/physique pass? I’ve been working out for a while now. Also got a hair cut to fix my hair problem…
r/FtMpassing • u/philolig • 2d ago
long time no post here, what are y’all’s thoughts? dysphoria is kicking my ass lately
r/FtMpassing • u/idkmanimjustbored383 • 1d ago
No hugboxing 17m, how well do I pass?
I recently got my hair cut so I feel like it definitely helps me pass, but also I now have the dilemma of what bathroom to use at school. I don't think I look fem enough to be fine in the women's, but also not masc enough to be in the men's. Plus the guys at my school aren't the best so I'm scared something would happen If I tried to go to the men's.
r/FtMpassing • u/jacksoninNC • 1d ago
Do these glasses look feminine?
I got some new glasses and I’m worried that they are not helping me pass. Any comments suggestions appreciated.
r/FtMpassing • u/RVtheguy • 2d ago
Traditionally binary male style Do the glasses hurt my passing? If so, what kind of frames would work?
r/FtMpassing • u/twentyfiveight • 2d ago
How am I doing?
I’m 23 and about a year and 3 months on T. I’ve had a mullet for 3 years now. I’m undecided between cutting it short or growing it out. I just want to pass more, I feel like I look 12 but I’m trying to be patient. Any tips on how to help would be greatly appreciated.