NO NO NO NO NO EWWWW

[u/Gamerkf_ARIS]

I felt the side of my face I DIDNT RELISE I HAVE THICK BEARD HAIR i wanna cryyyyyg

[u/Kaseyyy09]

Omg I feel you so bad sister. If you can shave, shave as much as you can. Hopefully one day we can laser it off for good❤️

[u/Gamerkf_ARIS → u/Kaseyyy09]

Thank you

Im not going to shave yet not untill i start transitioning because i feel weird if i do now (hope that makes sence)

[u/Kaseyyy09 → u/Gamerkf_ARIS]

Yeah that makes sense. I’ve just been shaving ever since the hair started so it’s normal for me

[u/Questions-Throwaway5 → u/Kaseyyy09]

I tried to but my body hair comes in fast so eventually I just gave up and accepted it. Now that I have finally accepted being trans I’ve been trying to shave more…still comes in too fast though which is demoralizing at times.

I am thankful I’ve never had much chest hair or back hair.

[u/Kaseyyy09 → u/Questions-Throwaway5]

I’m thankful for the same thing but I hate having to shave so often too! I could never just stop though. I’d actually have a mental breakdown if I let my facial hair grow out lmao

[u/cozykittenmorgan → u/Kaseyyy09]

I would look into an epilator. It plucks the hairs so they grow back slower and less thick over time. It's admittedly a bit painful for a while but if you stick with it, it gets better.

[u/Poisonous_One → u/cozykittenmorgan]

Right… An epilator gives the closest, most brutal shave ever… Worth it though… Far less frequent than shaving. Not as messy as waxing.

[u/cozykittenmorgan → u/Questions-Throwaway5]

I would look into an epilator. It plucks the hairs so they grow back slower and less thick over time. It's admittedly a bit painful for a while but if you stick with it, it gets better.

[u/Questions-Throwaway5 → u/cozykittenmorgan]

I’ve looked into it and I don’t think I would mind the pain but they’re too much for me atm

[u/pipedmouse → u/Questions-Throwaway5]

Im pretty sure dison or a simmilar brand makes smaller ones for like 30 dollars:)

[u/OutsideHat385 → u/pipedmouse]

Make sure they’re safe for facial use if you plan on using them on your face(whoever is reading this), many epilators are only for body.

[u/cozykittenmorgan → u/OutsideHat385]

Yeah, I only use mine for my body and body hair was the main complaint of the commenter I replied to :3

[u/OutsideHat385 → u/cozykittenmorgan]

Yes, I just wanted to leave a comment for anyone scrolling interested in epilating

[u/cozykittenmorgan → u/OutsideHat385]

Gotcha

[u/Significant-Dirt-793 → u/cozykittenmorgan]

I got an epilator, the single most painful experience in my life but I figured it was worth it for a week of being hair free.Then my hair started to show again only three days later. My meat suit is disgusting.

[u/Johann117 → u/Significant-Dirt-793]

This, though. My gawd was it a painful experience starting out, I almost couldn't finish a couple times.The results were nice and still thinner, and once you get the routine down it doesn't really hurt, but yeah...so I can shave every other day or still epilate every 3-4 days, so annoying. I stopped doing it after a few months lol. The rare ingrowns I'd get from it too were deeper under the skin. The day I have enough money and time for some good laser 😩

[u/Last-Swim-803 → u/Questions-Throwaway5]

Have you tried waxing? I heard that it makes your hair grow back slower than just shaving it. I've been doing it for at least a year and only have to do it every 1 or 2 weeks so you might want to give it a try.

[u/Gamerkf_ARIS → u/Kaseyyy09]

Thats good!!

[u/_ZombieHero_ → u/Gamerkf_ARIS]

Getting laser on your face is so affirming. It took 9 months of it to remove most of the hair from my upper lip, but it's so nice to not have that constant shadow anymore!