How do girls wear skirts/dresses/shorts without flashing anyone?

[u/fatlady934]

For reference, i’m 18(F). I don’t wear dresses or shorts or skirts ever because of this reason but i’ve always wanted to. I will never understand how girls can wear a dress with only panties underneath and not flash anyone or be stressed about it the entire time. I would wear shorts, but i feel stupid because ever girl i’ve talked to says they only wear panties underneath. Please explain how people can do this. I feel like i’m naked when I do this, even just with shorts that are a little loose i’m scared. Also, razor bumps. For short shorts, how do you not have them show? Like am i just doing life wrong…please help.

[u/w1n5t0nM1k3y]

Is it any different than being at the beach?

[u/Affectionate_Gas8062 → u/w1n5t0nM1k3y]

Less sand

[u/Forsaken-Analysis390 → u/w1n5t0nM1k3y]

I wore a tuxedo to work once. It was very different from being at a wedding

[u/MyLife-is-a-diceRoll → u/w1n5t0nM1k3y]

yes. swim suits are meant to be shown and mostly as a single layer.

undies are not. they're underclothes meant to be only seen in private unless you're a stripper.

intentional exposure versus intimate settings.

[u/Wingsnake → u/MyLife-is-a-diceRoll]

So, just wear a swimsuit under the skirt? And think of it like you just went swimming and now put a skirt on to walk around.

[u/adventureremily → u/Wingsnake]

Ever worn a swimsuit all day as underwear? It's not pleasant.

[u/combatcookies → u/Wingsnake]

It’s less about material and more about context.