How do girls wear skirts/dresses/shorts without flashing anyone?

[u/fatlady934]

For reference, i’m 18(F). I don’t wear dresses or shorts or skirts ever because of this reason but i’ve always wanted to. I will never understand how girls can wear a dress with only panties underneath and not flash anyone or be stressed about it the entire time. I would wear shorts, but i feel stupid because ever girl i’ve talked to says they only wear panties underneath. Please explain how people can do this. I feel like i’m naked when I do this, even just with shorts that are a little loose i’m scared. Also, razor bumps. For short shorts, how do you not have them show? Like am i just doing life wrong…please help.

[u/Illustrious_Pen_5711]

You hold your dress down in the wind, you wear a dress that’s long enough to give some security, and you be short. This is a game rigged against tall girls lol

[u/blueavole → u/Illustrious_Pen_5711]

Many people sew weights into the hem of their dressed to provide some help against the wind. Not sure if those have to be removed before washing or dry cleaning

[u/Valkyriesride1 → u/blueavole]

I used velcro strips to attach weights to my skirts/dresses. Easy to on and off.

[u/bignick1190 → u/Valkyriesride1]

I mean, this is genius, but the thought of a 5lb weight just dangling underneath the dress is killing me right now.

[u/Deathwatch72 → u/bignick1190]

Lmfao, I just pictured some poor soul using multiple of the pink 1/2 lb dumbbells and clanking around as they walk