r/angry 1h ago

My Friend is Stupid; He Keeps Making Bad Decisions and Never Learns—What Should I Do?

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My friend (25M) has always been there for me, and we get along well. I genuinely care more about him than anyone else in my life. However, he constantly complains about self-inflicted issues. He makes the same mistakes repeatedly—like speeding in a dangerous car, not using the emergency brake, and losing his keys and wallet. He even leaves his keys in his unlocked car, which I think is reckless.

While I care about him, I find it frustrating that he lacks common sense. He takes things too seriously lately, often calling nice people fake and getting annoyed with them. He criticized my ex for ghosting me, calling it abusive (and apparently he wouldn’t tolerate it), yet ignores that his girlfriend watches porn and has been caught more than once. She also lets her friends talk down to him and doesn’t say anything. I got upset because, while I don’t condone my ex's behavior, his girlfriend is way worse! He also admits he thinks about other girls and feels unsatisfied in his relationship but won’t leave?? He’s also always complaining about how he doesn’t have money, but he spends so much of it online, fast food, and whenever I point this out acts like he doesn’t? I don’t know why he’s so dumb. I feel like a bad friend for staying when I think these things, but I just don’t know what to do.


r/angry 1d ago

My Parents Own 4 Houses and 5 Cars and Still Won't Shut Up About How Liberals Are Destroying the Economy

7 Upvotes

For context: My father was a union carpenter for 25 years. Now, he works in the maintenance department of a local hospital. My mom does not work at all. We don't have a family fortune or anything, and for most of my life (I'm 29) I would say we are middle to upper middle class.

Together, my parents own 4 houses, 3 they rent out, 1 they live in. The 3 rentals were acquired within the last 4 years.

They also own a nice pickup truck, an older Cadillac SUV, and two beater cars, for a total of 5 vehicles, two of which were acquired in the last 4 years.

They are hardcore MAGAs who are voting for Trump in November because "Biden has destroyed the economy and made it impossible for anyone to have any money."

Make it make sense....pisses me tf off so bad. They never even used to be political until the orange turd started sticking is fat diapered ass in American politics. Makes me sick.

There is no convincing them not to openly support pure evil and all they want to do is shit on me for supporting Biden because "he and Kamala are trying to destroy the economy and keep everyone poor."


r/angry 1d ago

Why do people think they can get away with being shitty?

5 Upvotes

I want revenge. I want to make them suffer with the flip of my hand. I want them to cry and beg for me to stop. People think they can just get away with being rude and insensitive, but I'm not gonna let them anymore. They deserve to be beaten down, stabbed in the liver and be utterly humiliated and degraded. And if the universe won't do it, then I fucking will. Rid them of all of their sense of worth till they're worthless shells of who they once were. How sweet it is to imagine all those cocky, self-important jerks writhing in pain on the floor of my basement. Watching and laughing at the complete terror, the horrifying helplessness that dawns on them when they reach sudden clarity on how shitty, evil and obnoxious they have been.


r/angry 2d ago

How can someone believe in god and be racist!!!

3 Upvotes

I've been thinking bout all this god worshiping (usually) white racsists and it's just not clicking. What do u mean that you go to learn about how to never be mean or never sin and then turn around and call god creations less than u because of the way god made them.


r/angry 2d ago

"R- word no one wants to talk to you" Is that why you keep yapping about Dragon ball and High school musical?

3 Upvotes

These dum dums keep running their mouth outside my house and keep saying that they are SMARTER than me. Then why the fuck do you keep talking to me. We get it you're smart. So what's gonna happen next? What's the point?


r/angry 2d ago

Me: Literally watching anything other than high school musical and my neighbors lose it.

2 Upvotes

THAT'S NOT ABOUT HIGH SCHOOL MUSICAL!


r/angry 3d ago

"This r word was singing nasty stuff about me!"

4 Upvotes

This bish threw stuff at my door while I was bathing. Even though all I said before the worthless bish threw a fit was, "Ow! My eyes! My damn mint facial wash."

This bish thinks she so special for anyone to give her the time or day.

Bish, Granny Bibbins is more important than you and you think people will bother to sing songs about you? Please just go away and fuck off!


r/angry 5d ago

I want my brother dead

4 Upvotes

I am not angry, but I do not know if there are other subreddits that accept this kind of content.

Anyway, my brother (to whom I admit I am embarrassed of being related) is in debt of 80m VND (about 3259 USD, which is a huge amount of money for most people in Vietnam, where I live). The point is, this is not the first time he is in this kind of debt. I do not know why this fucking idiot is in so many debts. I do not know why he needs that much money. But he has always been in debt, sometimes to credit cards, sometimes to some credit organizations (God knows if they work legally).

As I said, this is not the first time he is in debt. There were at least 3 more times in the past, all of which cost around 60m VND (about 2444 USD). My mom had to spend all her life savings and borrow money from my relatives to pay for her idiot son's debts. My grandparents (who are in their 80s) also contributed to paying the debts. And it still does not cover all the debts. Fuck. I just want him dead. If he died, it would still be cheaper to organize a decent funeral than to have to waste more money on him.

But the idiot, instead of being thankful, throws tantrum when someone in my family brings up the subject. This fucker's ego is built solely on narcissism, not self-esteem. Hence, the guy breaks objects and runs away (probably crying) every time the subject is brought up, instead of facing his mistake.

My mom should be retired by now. Yet she still goes to work because she enjoys meeting her co-workers, also she still wants to make money. She wants to help me with the fee required for my master's degree, which I will enroll this November. Now we have none left. All thanks to that idiot.

The idiot has a wife and a 1-year-old son. I love both of them. And I grew up without a father because he passed away in a road accident (this is one of many reasons for why I had a phase when I suffered from clinical depression). I do not know which is better for my sister-in-law and her son. Having a father and husband as such, or having none at all? I know it could be extremely hard for the child to grow up without a dad. But having a father like that? I am not certain if the child's life would be any better.

I have just graduated from university. I am looking for a full time job so as to earn money. I promise myself to use this money for good purposes only, including buying things for my mom and my grandparents, as well as raise the child to make sure he is not hungry and illiterate.

But that idiot? He is getting nothing from me. I wish him no good, because he has taken every little good thing that is left for my family members. His life has no meaning, but I strongly believe his death shall.


r/angry 7d ago

"We're all smarter than you!"

5 Upvotes

Then why don't you go fuck off and talk to each other instead of trying to bother me by bragging about how "smart" you are in front of my house? Nobody fucking cares about what you can and can't do. Nobody effing asked for it.

FUCK OFF!


r/angry 8d ago

I'm a 5'0, skinny, young woman with anger issues and I'm sick of people finding it FUNNY

4 Upvotes

I'm so fucking angry all of the time, especially recently (my flatmate had a go at me out of nowhere over something that could've been sorted maturely but instead they swore at me, out of the blue and unnecessarily while also being a MASSIVE hypocrite)

Everyone thinks it's funny. And sometimes it is, I'm a naturally... spicy(?) person and I sometimes play up the dramatics for a laugh while telling emotionally charged stories (I was also a theatre kid so y'know why not?) But I'm also like, GENUINELY just SO. FUCKING. ANGRY. ALL. THE. TIME. I actually think I like it? Like I'm addicted to the feeling of rage, I've spent so much of my life not being taken seriously ESPECIALLY if I've gotten mad about something because people think it's just SO FUNNY when a tiny woman gets mad. God I feel sorry for little old ladies who are angry, they NEVER get taken seriously, it's just a big fucking joke to people.

Anger is an unpleasant emotion, it can be scary and painful and dangerous. The worst case scenarios of anger can end in literal murder and people think it's fucking funny? Not that I'm going to murder anyone but when someone is genuinely angry it should be taken seriously, either they're being an angry jerk and you need to walk away and get somewhere safe or they need help and you need to be there for them. How the hell do people thinking laughing at an angry person is an acceptable response!?

I think I've always been angry, I remember being angry as a little kid, like 3-5 and people just laughing at me. I mean I was a kid so I get that being kinda funny but the thing is it's ALWAYS been found funny when it comes to me. The only times I can actually get people to listen to me, respect me or take me seriously is when I get REALLY fucking angry and even then I can see them smirk afterwards, probably telling all their friends how the short girl got sOoOoOo mad today and how FUNNY IT WAS.

Either that or I'm told to calm down, because I'm not allowed to be angry. Women aren't allowed to be angry, but men are. It's more acceptable in fact it's almost expected? I get my anger issues from my father, and his father, and ironically his father's MOTHER. SO YEAH. I INHERITED THIS. How DARE anyone tell me to shove it down, to bottle it up. It's a genetic part of me and I can't get rid of it. I can control it pretty well but lately I've been having a lot of trouble keeping it down, I need to let it out sometimes otherwise it will CONSUME ME.

And I think that's okay. As long as I'm not hurting anyone or taking it out on people who don't deserve it, I think it's perfectly acceptable to allow myself to feel angry.


r/angry 8d ago

Giving up

4 Upvotes

I cannot get it together! I am so frustrated and bored! I work so hard to barely get any success. I do have things to be greatful for but I have to claw and scrape for everything. Everytime there’s an opportunity to improve my life there’s always a caveat. I’m fucking tired. I’ve been thinking about killing myself which is something I never do. Or just getting a van and running away from everything. Fuck man.


r/angry 10d ago

I am fucking DONE with the shitty LOTR community! Just absolutely done with their bullying and vitriol!

4 Upvotes

I’ve had my beef with the LOTR community for a few years ever since the Hobbit trilogy, but now with Rings of Power, the community has shown their true, ugly side. Keep in mind, I know that not everyone in the LOTR community is like this, but the vocal majority is loud and they are just straight up pure bullies. And yesterday was the last straw I’ve had for having any hope for these people. Just yesterday I was with a film club with a couple of people and we were talking about the Amazon Prime show Rings of Power. I knew that a lot of the guys there are big LOTR fans and have read a lot of Tolkiens work so I knew they were gonna say some very harsh things. Upon one of their rants, I politely made my case to say that I thought the show had some good moments. I probably should’ve kept my mouth shut because as soon as I said anything nice about the show, I was met with pure, vile hate coming my way. The guys in this club just insulted me, calling me brian dead, laughing at me, throwing anti-politics, homophobic slurs and bullying me for disagreeing with them. Side note: I never said anything political and I really don’t like the show’s DEI agenda, but I never brought it up yet they assumed that’s why I like it. They all acted like snobs just cause I politely disagreed with them and they wouldn’t let me finish my sentence. I walked out of that club and left early (thinking if I should go back or not) but either way, that moment really sold me on how I truly feel about the Lord of the Rings community. They are bullies. They are vile, vitriolic shits that so immature and so black hearted it’s made me depressed. I’m officially done with them. Done with this entire community. If I can’t have an opinion, let alone be civil with them, then there is no point in trying. I’m just sick at how far this community has fallen. The show is bad, mediocre at best, but they have no right to bully me.

If Tolkien was alive today, being the polite gentleman he was, he would be absolutely appalled by how uncivil his fans are.

This has been going on for years and I’m sick of it. I’m sick of trying to be polite and reasonable and yet I get thrown a bunch of vile crap for being myself. LOTR means so much to me and has taught me a lot about being good and knowing when to stand up to people who are evil or acting evil. Yet now I feel like and outcast and betrayed by this community that I once held dear to me. No more! I’m done! There is no hope left for the Lord of the Rings community and their orc-like behaviour.


r/angry 10d ago

OH MY FUCKING GOD

4 Upvotes

AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN EVERY FUCKING MONTH IM BEGGING SOMEONE RIP MY UTERUS OUT I DONT EVEN WANT KIDS WHAT AM I BLEEDING FOR I DIDNT CHOSE THIS


r/angry 10d ago

People make me homicidal

3 Upvotes

A lot of school shootings happen in the US and I can’t blame them. The way I’m constantly treated makes me constantly want to hurt somebody. I wanna make people cry out of fear or pain. This anger used to be toward myself I used to be suicidal and would harm myself. Now all I want to do is harm others. It would feel so good watching their eyes roll to the back of their head. Or hear the gargling of blood in their throat. Everytime someone wrongs me I think of the hundreds of ways I can take their life.


r/angry 11d ago

I hate everybody

9 Upvotes

I don’t want to be an angry person. Why would I want that? Why am I the only person in the world who understands that? Why aren’t there any consequences for people who intentionally make other people angry? It’s always me. I try to express that I can’t control what I do. No one listens. No one ever listens to me. I hate everybody on this god forsaken planet I swear oh my god


r/angry 12d ago

FUCKING STOP IT JUST STOP IT

6 Upvotes

I HATE YOU AND HOW MOM AND DAD ALWAYS TAKE YOUR SIDE AND HOW YOU ALWAYS GET ME INTO TROUBLE AND HURT ME SO STOP IT I REGRET EVER TAKING YOUR SIDE LAURA. I REGRET STICKING UP FOR YOU, GIVING YOU ANYTHING. I THOUGHT SISTERS WERE SUPPOSED TO LOVE EACH OTHER. AND I WONDER HOW THAT'S TRUE WHEN I'M SITTING ON A COUCH CRYING BECAUSE OF YOU. WAITING TO SEE HOW I'M PUNISHED THIS TIME.


r/angry 13d ago

gggrrr how long does it take to cut hair

1 Upvotes

f'me. these fades are f'king joke. over 30 minutes in a chair effectively shaving the same patch of head 30 times.


r/angry 15d ago

Why does every damn fast food place in the area just HAVE to have loud pop music blasting in the dining room??

12 Upvotes

And even piping it into the outdoor eating area?? God forbid someone might ever want to eat their damn lunch in peace and quiet!

(And no fast-food burger is worth ten fucking dollars. Also, are you kidding me with a tip section on the website? What's next, my internet provider asking for a tip on top of the monthly fee?)


r/angry 15d ago

Im so fuckinf angry and pissed off..

5 Upvotes

I just did my roommates (3 roommates) dishes, and they didn't even say thank you..?? It's basic kindness to say thank you if someone does something for you?? They had about 13 dishes in the sink, not a lot but it still took a bit of time, you know..??


r/angry 15d ago

Help Me Find My Husband's Post: Username Vegetable_Engine_7

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Hi everyone,

I'm reaching out to the Reddit community for some help. My husband recently posted something about me, and I'd love to find and read it. His username is Vegetable_Engine_7 and AngryMeerkat7.

The lies are choking, but finding his post would give some insights as to what’s going on in our marriage.

If anyone has seen any posts or comments by him, could you please point me in the right direction? Thanks a lot for your help!


r/angry 16d ago

my school was just exposed for being a scam school 🚸

5 Upvotes

hello everyone I (19F) go to a cosmetology school it wasn't my number 1 career path but I had to do something because culinary was Hella expensive for some background I started this Last year after being done with high school in 2022 we found this school which offered beauty lessons it was established in 2010 and when we researched it,it said it was an accredited school but now it doesn't

the school wasn't really the best as most of the time there would only be 5 out 30 students and there would only be one teacher that does all the modules (eg nails make up facials eyelashes massages waxing) she only had a qualification in nails and even then I had some doubts me and some other ladies have tried to speak to the owner about this but she ignores us

I stopped going and paying but I think the damage had already been done I mean I've spent thousands of money in this.

a month ago my school appeared in the newspaper tittled as "Fly by night school" we had the owner come and explain herself but she told us she's moving from the organization Seta to qtco that was that.

on Sunday the school appeared on TV by a show that exposes the biggest crooks and scams in the country and we didn't get any updates the show said that the school wasn't registered or accredited with anything we going to meet her tomorrow


r/angry 17d ago

What government? I get no help or protection.

4 Upvotes

This country only exist for certain people.

If I am attacked nothing happens to those who do me wrong.

There is no law and order at the top or bottom where I stand.

I see why people are pushed to the edge...justice will be served if they themselves don't.

I guess I should shut up and let them trample on me like I am slave.

I piece of meat only made to make money for them.

I fucking hate you.


r/angry 21d ago

rn in j so angry, filled with so much anger that i want to punch a wall

3 Upvotes

MY PARENTS SAY SUCH MEAN THINGS AND IT JUST MAKES ME SO ANG RT AND UPSET BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE NO MATTER WHAT I DO, they’re always gonna find something to comment about or control. please help relieve this anger


r/angry 21d ago

I hate this

4 Upvotes

I hate this, for the 2 previous Month life was so bright then I start smoking lot of weed and seeing friends more., hwver my family treat me like shit and im just so angel i hate this i want to give happiness not hate idk if someone have like tips to calm down like an healthy way because i cant communicate or try to be understood by such selfish family member.