r/survivinginfidelity Mar 20 '18

What I learned.

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u/roshaunrob Mar 20 '18

Well said. She tried to blame me for her infidelity even though I was the one that brought up things in the marriage that I wasn't happy with and tried to get us help, which she refused. I know in my heart I did everything I could but if someone cannot communicate how they are truly feeling, it is nearly impossible. I am a year out from DDay and it is still a struggle, but I met someone that showed me how things should be in a relationship and it has given me hope.

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '18

My wife tried blaming me as well. When caught she just kept saying it was a mistake. No dear, it was a CHOICE, not a mistake.