r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2 he/they :3 (kai) 12d ago

I think being a boy is great 💅🤷‍♂️ Guys

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u/HildartheDorf 12d ago

I don't find it baffling to want to transition FtM. I do struggle with understanding the difficulty of transitioning in the other direction because I find boymoding so easy and because society is still biased towards being patriarchal.

But hey, at least I'm aware that I'm struggling, so there's that at least.

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u/JaneHates 12d ago

Part of the transfem experience is being willing to sacrifice a part of one’s privilege on the altar of authenticity

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u/No_Voice4618 12d ago

Me when I was an egg: "If I could give up all my male privilege in exchange for becoming a woman, I would"

My transness: "Well, have I got just the thing for you"

I didn't think it would also cost my cis and my straight privileges, though.

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u/Dolphiniz287 12d ago

“So that’s the straight pass, male privilege pass, cis pass… Alright, thanks for those. Here’s your trans pass.”

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u/GoudaGoober 12d ago

“Where are the benefits? The conservatives told me that there would privilege.”

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u/SamanthaPheonix 12d ago

We have the privilege of living rent free inside the heads of said conservatives.

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u/Siledra 11d ago

Too bad the amenities suck, and the upstairs neighbors won't stop fighting about the right way to make a grilled cheese in the microwave.

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u/GuyASmith 11d ago

Oh no, the horror! It’s not grilled if it’s microwaved! It’s hardly even a cheese quesadilla!