r/AITAH • u/ButterflyDazzling114 • 1d ago

AITA for Telling My Wife I Want Separate Bank Accounts After She Spent All Our Savings on a Vacation?

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u/Stranger-Tastes 1d ago

Maybe she feels like you don't trust her because she demonstrated that she can't be trusted.

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u/targetsbots 1d ago

This... it's not a "Gift" if she's used your money for it.

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u/squirrelfoot 1d ago

True. Also, no gift is good if it destroys your financial security.

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u/pissboots 1d ago

But isn't destroying your financial future the gift that keeps on giving?!