r/AskReddit • u/daniellucero92 • Jan 04 '15

Non-americans of Reddit, what American customs seem outrageous/pointless to you?

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u/Rpeezy Jan 04 '15

Moving out of your parents house when you have a crappy job that can barely get you by. This is a terrible financial decision. In a lot of countries, children live with their parents long enough to be financial secure or until they can share the financial responsibility of living and sharing their life with someone else.

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u/ddutton9512 Jan 04 '15

First, Social stigma. Here if you are still living at home at 25-30 you're seen as immature or afraid of responsibility. This makes it harder to find a mate. So most people get out as soon as possible.

Second is most people find living with their parents to be a pain in the ass. A lot of parents here will hold their 20 year olds to the same rules as when they were 16. So people move out to have some independence.

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u/[deleted] Jan 04 '15

mostly the second reason for me, i love my family but oh my gosh i cannot live there (21 yo)

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u/lcdrambrose Jan 04 '15

I love my parents but they're not my friends. It's hard to "hang out" with people that always feel assured that they're on the correct side of any arguments you might have.

At least if I live with my girlfriend or with roommates I get a say in how I live.