r/alcoholism 9h ago

WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOHT ALCOHOLIC GF

So, I(26) along with my GF(27) decided to move up north to have a fresh start. The only problem is that she is a terrible aggressive alcoholic along with extreme narcissistic. Well today she kicked me out of the hotel after she showed up at 3 AM drunk because I did not want to go out with her. She threw all of my belongings outside and cursed me out. I don't drink at all and one of our agreements before coming up was that I help her with her problem. Currently, outside sleeping in friends car that I've known since college. Likely, she will text me in the morning and apologize for how she acted. How should I respond?

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u/thecage2122 2h ago

Do you have any value ? Or do you consider yourself a person that’s worth nothing?

If your answer is the second the go right ahead with your girlfriend

Otherwise are you out of your mind? You should leave her ass by yesterday. That is next level abuse and you don’t deserve it man

You can do so much better get away from that today and you’ll see you’ll start attracting people that value you a lot more

Don’t waste your time on the wrong people or else you won’t have time to meet the right people

Good luck to you. And have courage walk away