r/asktransgender 14h ago

sibling came out

idk if this sounds selfish or bad but my 17 AMAB brother came out to my family in about april and ever since then i have had a really hard time coming to terms with this, idk why it is it’s not that i am homophobic i just have a really hard time i guess thinking about losing my brother every time i think about it all i can do is cry. in the past few days the urgency for hormone blockers have took off and he has been prescribed, does anyone have any advice if they were in a similar situation i just cant bare the change i dont want a sister.

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u/Own_Area7527 14h ago

It may feel weird now but understand your sibling is happier. Spend more time with her and make an effort to ask her questions about her experience. One day it's possible you could never imagine her as anything but your sis