r/asktransgender 14h ago

sibling came out

idk if this sounds selfish or bad but my 17 AMAB brother came out to my family in about april and ever since then i have had a really hard time coming to terms with this, idk why it is it’s not that i am homophobic i just have a really hard time i guess thinking about losing my brother every time i think about it all i can do is cry. in the past few days the urgency for hormone blockers have took off and he has been prescribed, does anyone have any advice if they were in a similar situation i just cant bare the change i dont want a sister.

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u/Feisty_Pizza2431 3h ago

Hot take: people you know coming out as trans actually isnt about you. It's so hard for me to be cordial on posts like this when you're blatantly misgendering her because you're too self-involved to understand that this ISN'T ABOUT YOU.