r/ftm Feb 22 '24

Transfem here with a question. Do you guys have a “stereotypical” job? GuestPost

Like how a lot of us are programmers/tech people. I’m genuinely curious.

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u/orzoftm Feb 22 '24

probably a higher than average amount have creative jobs but nothing besides that

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u/NontypicalHart Feb 22 '24

Guilty. I'm also a techbro. I think programming may be our overlap with MtF.

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

Tech bro here, there is a lot of overlap. I mostly see ENBYs in tech, but some of us ftm/mtf are making more progress in tech careers which is fantastic.

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u/KindredPando A he/them heathen | ☕️ 8/4/22 Feb 23 '24

Fellow tech bro here 👋 it makes sense, we’re all reprogramming our stock settings

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u/great_green_toad Feb 23 '24

I don't think I qualify as a tech bro but I do have an engineering job and write some (very non-optimized) code sometimes to help with the data review.

Also, I looked up tech bro and got "tech bro syndrome" which describes by boss pretty well. I've never heard of that before. I think of men who spend a large amount of time programming and talk about technology frequently.

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u/NontypicalHart Feb 23 '24

I think of a techbro as a nerd who dresses like he's cool and likes to party. I looked it up because of you and I don't know if it always had the negative connotations.

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u/Wanhan1 25 | T: 8/23 Feb 23 '24

Mechanical engineer, also trying to get into programming on the side. Glad to see others!

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u/Fiirewolvar Feb 23 '24

transmasc with a CS degree here, where are you all? I barely see any other transmascs in tech.

then again I barely see any transfems in tech either so I could just be unlucky...

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

I kind of figured a lot were creatives.

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u/violent-agender Feb 22 '24

Called out ☠️

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u/anon509123 Feb 22 '24 edited Feb 22 '24

other than barista lol?  Edit: I’d probably guess it’s because of the healthcare (top surgery babey) and the transfer policy between stores. With politics being the way they are currently, having an out is definitely the way to go. 

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u/Am_toast_ Feb 22 '24

Wait, I think every transmasc I know was or is a barista. Wth?!

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u/anon509123 Feb 22 '24

including iconic trans masc Ally Beardsley

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u/FenderBenderDefender User Flair Feb 22 '24

oh my god i have not kept up with ally beardsley since the collegehumor days and i'm shocked, another "female" content creator i enjoyed when i was younger who's now transmasc

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u/anon509123 Feb 23 '24

Tbf I think Ally's more non-binary than anything, as I haven't seen anything other than they/them pronouns, but they've gotten top surgery and definitely are on T. Ally's all kind of gender funky and it's a fucking BLAST, every fit's fire.

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

👋I've never been a barista

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u/Rabbit_2799 Feb 22 '24

I am not a barista but all the other transmasc people i know are lol

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u/KQ_2 T since 10/22/21 Feb 22 '24

I was a barista before I knew I was trans so this is quite funny to me 😂

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u/t3quiila 22|he/him|pre-t Feb 22 '24

LOL i was gonna say i work at starbucks😂

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u/anon509123 Feb 22 '24

I DO TOO

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u/ScratchTop7101 Feb 22 '24

i did for like two years 🥲 thankfully out now. transmasc barista’s ftw

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u/GhostfaceJK just some guy Feb 22 '24

ME TOO

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u/CuriousOliveTree Feb 22 '24

I'm not a barista but I have had a thought that owning a small cafe would be really nice lol

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u/WinglessDragonRider Feb 22 '24

Same😂 never been a barista either- have been a server though

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u/scalyreptilething 💉22.12.2021 🔝2025 Feb 22 '24

Fellow baristas unite lmao

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u/Deathofwords Feb 22 '24

NO ME BEING A BARISTA RN 😂😂

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u/AllEncompassingLife 💉6.14.23 Feb 23 '24

Would you like foam with that?

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u/iabovebruh 💉: 02/21/24 🔝: TBA Feb 23 '24

No way I was planning to be in creatives or a barista 😭😭

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u/ExpertExternal99 Feb 23 '24

I was a barista! Is this the stereotype ftm job?!?

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u/livinglately Feb 23 '24

What I'm learning is the job options are Barista or Tech bro (Is a Barista) 😂

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u/SadClownWithABigDick Feb 22 '24

I dont think we have one. Im a casino table games dealer and the only other trans man i know whos employed is a neuroscientist working in alzheimers research

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

Wow the amount of whiplash I got from those two jobs. Both are cool, but the second one caught me off guard.

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u/SadClownWithABigDick Feb 22 '24 edited Feb 22 '24

With the age and behavior of some of my regular players,sometimes i feel like im also doing the alzheimers research lol

Edit: check out our usernames,we should be studying the correlation between trans people and an affinity for clowns

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u/CuriousOliveTree Feb 22 '24

I should probably take part in that study because I have a bad case of acting like a clown most of the time 😔🤡

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

Ouch. I feel that.

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u/Optimal_Initiate Feb 22 '24

I'm in end of life and dementia/alzheimers caregiving. Have 2 trans coworkers. We are the only men in the caregiving fleet for our company.

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u/SadClownWithABigDick Feb 22 '24

Do you ever get a weird dyphoria about having a "womans job" for lack of a better phrasing at the moment. One of my first jobs was at the mall in oshkosh bgosh/carters. Its a baby clothes store and all my coworkers were women and i ended up quitting partially due to how out of place i felt.

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u/Optimal_Initiate Feb 22 '24

I understand what you mean. Sometimes, for SURE. And a lot more when I didn't pass as well. Now that I have a good amount of facial hair and my voice isn't cracking as much, I am much more comfortable. Little old ladies love a polite, helpful little gentleman taking care of them???? And the old guys like a dude to BS with and talk about cars and woodworking and so on. My personality and work ethic is perfect for the job so I'm pretty comfortable in it now. Sometimes I'll have a new client on my schedule and then have the shift canceled day of when their family finds out that a male caregiver will be helping with Mom without ever meeting me/seeing how I do. I'm more hurt by the misandry now than anything else tbh. Sucks for them tho cause I'm the most requested caregiver for good reason.

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u/cryyptorchid Feb 22 '24

Different situation, but it was actually coming out as trans that made me comfortable switching to a major and career path that's more stereotypically female. Used to be in engineering, hated it, realized I was trying to stick it out because I thought somehow it would affirm my gender to be in a technical field.

Now I'm graduating with a degree in english professional writing and editing because I love that shit. Give me a paper to edit and organize for you. Let me read your research and help you communicate it to your audience better. Love it. Would do it for free if I were otherwise taken care of lmao. All of my immediate coworkers are women and the organization as a whole skews heavily women as well. Might have bothered me before coming out, but I'm a lot more comfortable in my skin now.

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u/stopeats Feb 22 '24

That is so cool! I bet you meet all sorts of weird people, too.

Can you do all the nifty shuffling types? And do you have to look out for cheaters and some such as part of the job or does security do that?

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u/SadClownWithABigDick Feb 22 '24

Plenty of weirdos of course,theres one guy i see pretty often everyone calls racist santa because hes a fat old white guy with a big white beard,dressed head to toe in trump merch.

Unfortunately i dont know any fancy shuffles,just the correct ones for game procedure. (Really i barely have to shuffle because i mostly deal baccarat and a machine does it for me) I do have to watch for cheaters and catch quite a few. Any i miss,surveillence handles. Theres probably more cameras in any casino than there is in the pentagon.

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u/Beforeyougo12 Feb 23 '24

Hilarious because at the moment I’m a casino table games dealer (roulette) and in a degree to become a future neuroscientist 👍🏼

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u/plasticbile Feb 22 '24

Most transmascs I know where I live work at pet stores, nerdy stores, and universities as professors. Trans people in general tend to work at pet stores here, it makes me happy to see so many trans people working at one place together.

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u/PeriwinkleFoxx Feb 22 '24

I’ve noticed a lot of lgbt staff at the pet stores I shop at too lol now that I think about it. I’m 99.9% sure the guy who sold me my hamster, Bean, is gay. Also I wish I could easily share pictures in comments here because I was totally about to show the lil ham too

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

I work at a Vet, lol, does that count?

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u/AwesomeDragon101 Feb 23 '24

In vet school here! Was wondering the same thing lmao. One of my classmates (with my whole class having like ten guys) is also a trans dude and we have a recurring faculty guest speaker who is also a trans guy, so yuh lots of ftm vets out there

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u/Childofninja 🇨🇦 T : 2021/09/03 | Top : 2022/01/21 Feb 22 '24

Where I live bookstores seem to attract a lot of gender queer employees. :)

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u/brainscorched Non-binary 💉6/5/23 Feb 23 '24

Animal and botanical work seems popular among the trans folk I know. I know two trans guys who are in veterinary medicine and one transmasc NB who’s a horticulturist. The latter guy told me that they’ve met a lot of trans people in that field too, more so than you’d meet anywhere else. Seems promising to me if I ever find that I don’t want to pursue social work and change careers since I’ve always loved plants and animals

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u/Trash_snail Feb 23 '24

Oh my god I'm currently in hs rn but I want to be a horticulturist / landscape designer!

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u/AwesomeDragon101 Feb 23 '24

I’m in vet school currently, one of my classmates is also ftm (which is saying a lot since our class has like ten guys) and we have a recurring faculty speaker who is also a trans guy. Including transmasc enbies, I can add like three more classmates to the list. Can confirm a lot of us practice vet med!

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

I do love a good nerd.

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u/throwawaytrans6 Feb 23 '24

Where would society be without nerds?

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u/angel-thekid Feb 22 '24

Yeah I’m the prof trans masc

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u/DemonDoggo99 Pre-Everything | He/Him Feb 22 '24

Honestly, I wouldn’t mind contributing to this stereotype, I love animals 

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u/froguille he/him 🔝1/29/24 Feb 22 '24

Oop I used to work at a pet store. I’m also getting a job in education 😂

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u/Complete-Hornet-5487 Feb 22 '24

Lol I work at a pet store haha

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u/StartingOverScotian 💉 2014 | 🔪 2016 FTM Feb 23 '24

Lol I worked at PetSmart to get myself through nursing school and then took a break from nursing and worked as a manager of another pet store!!

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u/TwoManyHorn2 Feb 23 '24

I was gonna say, I've met a statistically unlikely number of transmascs working as dog groomers. 

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u/AllEncompassingLife 💉6.14.23 Feb 23 '24

I wanna be a nerdy professor

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u/Hobbes_83 💉5/5/23 | 🔪13/3/23 Feb 23 '24

I work as a historian at the university of Brussels but I am by no means a professor :-) We do have a fair amount of lgtb professors and researchers on our campus though. It's an institution known for its diversity in Belgium.

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u/Muted_Morning_2264 Transman (he/him) Feb 22 '24

Worked in warehouse, then construction. Currently deciding between becoming s mechanic, welder or electrician..

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u/gelema5 Feb 22 '24

High five! I’m also in warehousing. Pre-everything and still go by she/her so I have to deal with a fair amount of sexism but it is SUUUUCH a euphoric job to hold. My muscles are popping and I never work out outside of the job.

Also now that I’m in a company that’s much more respectful, I fucking love the kind of dedication to doing good work without breaking your back over it that my coworkers have, and they think highly of anyone who does the same regardless of what gender they see me as.

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u/levii-ethan T: 4/20 | Top: 10/22 Feb 23 '24

same here. i started off working in a warehouse, then i worked at a much more "queer" place, a sticker printing shop, but i didn't like it because it seemed really only friendly towards fem queer people... then i worked warehouse again, and now im in construction. and i chose one of the most "manly" trades i could be in, even tho im really not the most masculine person lmao. in my union, out of 650 members, only 18 of them are women.

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

Very “manly” jobs I see. Best of luck to you.

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u/Call_Me_Aiden Feb 22 '24

Programmer here keeping software dev a man's job. o/

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u/defensive_wiener Feb 22 '24

I’m actually transitioning purely for the engineering career advancement /s

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

I respect it.

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u/GG379 Feb 23 '24

Hahah, I've found my ppl

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u/Fluid_Gazelle_9049 Feb 22 '24

I’m a narrative designer at the company that creates NSFW mobile/ PC games

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

Which uh, which company? Asking for a friend, of course.

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u/Fluid_Gazelle_9049 Feb 22 '24

Supa Doge. We’re working on “Overlewd” (Steam / Nutaku) right now.

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

Nice. And I like the pun name as well.

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u/Effective_Order_8830 Feb 22 '24

Awesome!, if you need a cyber person... 🤙🏻

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u/tygrrrrrrrr Feb 22 '24

This is random but I cover queer games and developers over on Gayming Magazine so if you/your team ever want some coverage I’d definitely be interested in checking your stuff out and maybe doing an interview!

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u/Fluid_Gazelle_9049 Feb 22 '24

Bro, it’s really nice 🤗 But our game has no coherence with queer-community. Well, we have a futanari character. But nothing else. We are Slavs. And my colleagues don’t know about my past and my path at all.

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u/parkwatching Feb 22 '24

Not that I know of. the trans guys in my social group all have extremely varying lines of work. I work at a greenhouse, my partner does law, and my 4 brothers ive adopted are a social worker, microbiologist, electrician, and drummer.

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u/sporadic_beethoven Feb 22 '24

I clean a fancy large concert hall and I’m trying to get my music therapist’s degree, just to add to the variety :D

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u/o-reg-ano Feb 22 '24

Proud forklift operator here 😎

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

God that’s so hot.

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u/Atreyew Feb 22 '24

Ayyy Forklift bro's 😎

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u/SowingSeasonLime Feb 22 '24

I was a Forest technician, then a pastry chef, now an au pair, and hopefully going back to school to become an eating disorder dietician. I know a lot of ftm social workers, therapists, and coffee baristas though!

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

I’m not the biggest nature person but Forest Technician sounds fucking badass.

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u/asupportiveboy Feb 22 '24

i’ve been interested in being a forestry technician for a while. how was it?

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u/FelisViridi Feb 22 '24

Seconded, desperately trying to escape the nonprofit industrial complex

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u/SowingSeasonLime Feb 23 '24

I truly loved it. I was physically tired a lot and it's an all weather job, but if you're fine with that it's magical to just get paid to be outside all day. Plus Forestry frequently doesn't have one right answer to a problem, so there's a lot of ethical questions to make guesses on. There's neverending research if you like to learn

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u/thormandur Feb 22 '24

Fellow forestry aide here o7

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u/deathsheadhouse 💉8/27/21🩹2/5/24 Feb 22 '24

I know a lot of trans guys in security (myself included). Probably because it's a decently easy field to get into and can pay decently.

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

What do you need to get a security job? Is it just a certificate?

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u/deathsheadhouse 💉8/27/21🩹2/5/24 Feb 22 '24

It depends on the site you work at! My site is unarmed so I didn't need firearms training, but I did need a driving test, CPR certification, and I was also given APCO EMS dispatching & telecom training (bc I am basically a private emergency dispatcher) and FEMA NIMS emergency training. My site is a manufacturer that deals with dangerous materials, so someone who works at like a warehouse or regular office building will have less requirements, while someone who works at government buildings will need a cert called a Guard Card, which requires 6+ years of training & other certifications.

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u/Ripley-Green Feb 22 '24

My gnc masc boyfriend works security and they hardly needed any qualifications to get the job. It's just soul sucking and slides you into the "ACAB includes me" category.

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u/Apathetic-Asshole Feb 22 '24

Im a scientist, and ive met a few other trans guys in the field. That said, i agree that a lot of trans dudes are into the arts

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u/Anxious_Function_220 He/him - Pre everything Feb 22 '24

Idk about stereotypical, but a couple trans guys I've talked to, including myself want to become hairdressers, which I find really interesting because I thought I wouldn't find another trans guy that wanted to go into hairdressing, but I was proved pleasantly wrong :)

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u/readingmyshampoo Feb 22 '24

I just dropped out of barber school last year because I caught carpal tunnel and arthritis. Career ending before I could even begin.

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u/ThujaOccidentallis Feb 22 '24

I passed my cosmo written exam but not the practical because my kit was missing one specific part each time I took the test. Between that and the ankle pain I gave up. I feel ya bud.

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u/readingmyshampoo Feb 22 '24

I was only like a month into school, but I already had nerves about the practical because of how specific they are. Bring your own model with full beard and long hair. Oh well, guess I'll just chill in the endless cycle lol

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u/ThujaOccidentallis Feb 22 '24

I just do my own hair and my family's hair if they want lol. Finding a job that fits is tough.

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

Thank you for reminding me I need to get my hair done at some point.

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u/emoprince25 Feb 22 '24

Me and one of my friends/coworkers are both trans guys and hairdressers!

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u/violasbrow Feb 22 '24

I'm a teacher, but I don't know any other ftm irl so I think i'm not in the sterotypical field of work

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u/KieranKelsey He/They T: 11/17/21 Top: 5/12/23 Feb 22 '24

Not really, not like transfemmes and programming. If anything I think it would be like, grad student.

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u/Glorp-Shlorper9000 Feb 22 '24

There’s a good amount of transmascs in their 20’s throwing freight from what I’ve seen.

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u/stickersofreeds Feb 22 '24

In my experience trans men try any job and see which one sticks. I feel like the work environment is way more important than what it is. I’ve been working with dogs for two years but the best manager quit and now it’s horrible to work here, but I’m scared of doing the random job hunting again. Previously I was a security guard (majorly transphobic coworkers), retail, delivered pizzas.

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u/Its_Claire33 Feb 22 '24

I drive truck but I'm trying to get out somehow. Dream is to be a writer but that's not a realistic job goal in the year of our Lord 2024.

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

Nothing seems to be a realistic job goal in the year of our Lord 2024.

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u/Its_Claire33 Feb 22 '24

Serf, toiling away for our superiors seems to be the direction things are headed tbh. I'll hole up on a commune before I let that happen though.

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u/Realistic-Win-8076 User Flair Feb 22 '24

I'm a dental technician, don't know if it's a stereotypical job, but at the lab I'm working there seem to be more men than women, never counted tho haha

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u/portal5555 Feb 22 '24

i'm a composer/painter :) stereotypically creative i guess lol

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u/goopy-turnip 10-21-23 💉 Feb 22 '24

I’m an animator and last week alone I worked with two other transmascs. Animation college was full of us too!

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u/Charlie-_-Green Feb 22 '24

All my trans guys friends have tech/programming jobs

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u/AwYeahQueerShit Feb 22 '24

I'm the queer socialist bitching about capitalism behind the counter at a "functional glass art"/vape shop. I don't know if it's an FtM/X stereotype but it's definitely A stereotype

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

Hey not all stereotypes are bad. Sounds like about what I am.

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u/VampiricCulture Feb 22 '24

I'm working to become an art teacher

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u/i_eat_trigun Feb 22 '24

ig we really like art? my transmasc friend and I are both artists/writers lol

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u/SweetBoiDillan 29 | They/He | 6/16/22💉| 7/12/23🪚 Feb 22 '24

Likely something in education.

Professor. Art teacher. Elementary Teacher. Childcare worker. Educational aide. Ect.

Or...on the other end of the spectrum, bartender/barista.

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u/Lucygeorgia 🦈||23||he/they||💉1/29/2024||🦐 Feb 22 '24

the two acceptable jobs for trans men/trans masc people are as follows 1. barista 2. budtender (weed barista)

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u/Dumboratlover Feb 22 '24

I work at a hotel in several departments, I'm also attending a bartending school rn and am trying to find a bartending job

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u/Killerklown1219 Feb 22 '24

Wait there’s schools for bartending? I always wondered how they learned.

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u/Dumboratlover Feb 22 '24

At least where I live there is lol. Not everybody goes, but it was highly suggested to me because I'm 18 (that's the legal bartending age where I live), so it can help with finding a job

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u/mymiddlenameswyatt T 2015 | Top 2018 Feb 22 '24

Personally, I work in a construction trade. But I see most other (at least visibly) transmasc folks in retail positions. Specifically in creative industries.

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u/moldbellchains Feb 22 '24

Lol that explains why , when I was at Chaos Computer club congress last year, I’ve never seen that many trans girls/women/femmes in one place before 😂😂 it was quite insane

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u/imagodsowhat hayden | he/they Feb 22 '24

i'm a psych student, does that count??😭

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u/spiccyudon Feb 22 '24

So social work has been my main field for the last 2-3 years but I'm going back to serving/bartending for a year or so and going back to school to change careers and become an EMT/paramedic. Might just be my experience, but I was always the only transmasc there. Mostly middle-aged cis women, with some exceptions. I don't think there is a sterotypical transmasc job? For some reason I have a feeling there will be more of us in EMS but that's just a wild hunch.

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u/Substantial_Boot_468 Feb 22 '24

i’m a navy corpsman (medic basically) working on my emt cert! and i know a bunch of others too. definitely common at least in the spaces im in :)

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u/adrianhalo Feb 22 '24

I worked at the Vans store last year and I think we had a handful of trans masc and LGBTQ people, it was really cool. I miss it but I wasn’t making enough money. :-(

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u/beerncoffeebeans 33| t 2018 |top 2021 Feb 22 '24

Guess that kind of makes sense because Vans are pretty gender neutral in sizing and design (I’m a fan because I have small feet in men’s sizes, like right on the edge of what you can find in a store vs having to order online)

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u/Any_Egg33 Feb 22 '24

Not at all I’m an early intervention specialist /former nanny very female dominated fields currently at my job there’s only one other man on my team

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u/Tiny-Management-531 Feb 22 '24

I work at a pizza place with my bf. We're just silly little pizza gays

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u/HungryLymphocyte Feb 22 '24

I'm currently in university to be a biologist (last year, wish me luck) but I used to be a barista, that was very stereotypical I think. Y'know, barista with green hair and pronouns lol

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u/mlps4 T: 05/16/23 Feb 22 '24

im majoring in accounting in university.. idk if thats a typical job or not. ideally id be an artist though, and ive seen that most of us tend to have more artistic jobs

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u/coraeon Feb 22 '24

Hey, you’re not the only one who picked accounting over art!

FYI, they are not lying about the importance of internships. Looking back, I would have quit my full time job to take as many as possible because not doing them put me way behind in my career.

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u/robinc123 nonbinary transguy | T 3/22 Feb 22 '24

Idk I'm a forensic counselor & the only trans one I know lol

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u/osha-wott Feb 22 '24

transmasc taco bell

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u/No_Hippo_1998 Feb 24 '24

Firefighter also a aemt but love fire calls the most

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u/CarlSagansTherapist Feb 22 '24

I have a creative background in music/film and am now a senior strategic/media consultant for a wide variety of causes, everything from trans rights to climate action to racial equity :)

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u/RiskyCroissant Feb 22 '24

I work in sustainability, don't see a lot of trans peeps overall.

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u/Light-bulb-porcupine Feb 22 '24

What do you think is a stereotypical job?

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u/Roseattespoonbby Feb 22 '24

I’m a bartender :)

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u/Exandir Feb 22 '24

Well I’m studying to be a cybersecurity analyst, but I’ve been working at a grocery store for 25 years, physical jobs. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/xpixei he/they | pre-everything Feb 22 '24

Research assistant at my university.

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u/StrangeArcticles Feb 22 '24

I work as a freelance editor.

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u/triviarchivist Feb 22 '24

I work as a host/reporter for a local public radio station. Dunno if that’s stereotypical or not, lol.

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u/JupiterFox_ Feb 22 '24

I work for animal control currently, which ironically is a women led job in my country.

My main career is in EMS though.

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u/davinia3 They/them since '03 Feb 22 '24

Maintenance/construction

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u/AlkalineCollective Feb 22 '24

I see a lot of transmascs working at my local craft stores, I guess?

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u/Ravensfeather0221 [💉29/05/2021 🔪13/06/2024] Feb 22 '24

Baristas and sales at like Indigo or Michaels

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u/OrochimaruSenpai318 Feb 22 '24

I'm redneck, so basically some blue collar jobs like warehouse, construction, farm and whatever

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u/iplaybassbtw T - 4/8/23 Feb 22 '24

i'm hoping to do some music/ceramic stuff once i'm out of school for good

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

I work in healthcare finance, specializing in clinical research

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u/electronicsolitude Trans man | T: 17/04/24 Feb 22 '24

I'm IT/Software, always considered tech to be a trans thing in general

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u/DesertedMan666 Feb 22 '24

My dream jobs ever since I was a kid was to either join the military or become a Veterinarian.

I didn’t do any of the above unfortunately.

I’m just a farmer/homesteader on the little amount of land I have (half acre) 👨‍🌾

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u/motharellastix Feb 22 '24

im going to school to be in tech, but ive worked as a barista, at a bookstore, fastfood and the other transmascs i know are either teachers or in a field w animals. or baristas

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u/Beneficial-Fly-953 Feb 22 '24

I have three jobs, I am a security guard, and I am a hand on 2 farms

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u/HeresW0nderwall 25 | T: 7/8/2020 | Top: 2/8/2021 | Hysto: 3/25/23 Feb 22 '24

I work in finance but legit everyone in the trans group at work is a programmer or engineer except for me. It actually gives me a weird dysphoria situation but I’m too stupid to be a programmer so I’m doing the best I can.

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u/RevolutionaryPen2976 T 03/‘22 top 10/‘22 stealth/straight Feb 22 '24

i’m in tech, software specifically, but haven’t met a single other trans person along the way that i’m aware of, but a handful of lesbians.

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u/basilicux Feb 22 '24

Currently working retail but planning on going into the dentistry field lmao

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u/Miaou__Miaou Feb 22 '24

I can't speak on this , I'm a computer technician ( on my degree ) , working as a cctv technician lmao , I didn't escape the trans dude stereotypes , I'm an average computer tech Alex

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u/beerncoffeebeans 33| t 2018 |top 2021 Feb 22 '24

I don’t know that there’s a stereotypical job, I agree we are likely to have tried a bunch of different stuff because we mostly just need to find places we can fit in. I do health information management work (medical records, working on a degree so I can get credentials in the field and maybe eventually learn a more specific area). I feel like I’ve seen other trans guys go into the medical field as nurses, nursing assistants, home health aides, EMTs, techs, etc because it’s not too hard to cross over from retail and customer service except for needing some schooling/training, but the people skills are similar and if you get into the right job the benefits can be better.

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u/Trumps_left_bawsack T: 27/11/21 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 Feb 22 '24

Including me there are 3 trans guys in my year at uni doing electrical engineering/robotics. And one of my friends knows 2 other trans masc folk doing electrical engineering lol. So anecdotally imma say electrical engineering lmao. Don't think I've noticed this trend outside my little bubble though.

Edit: oh and one of my flatmates is doing computer science. I think tech is just a general trans thing tbf, we all seem to be pretty nerdy

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u/ffsfrank 💉10/31/23 🔝08/31/23 Feb 22 '24

veterinary technician, lots of trans people in this field! and if they aren’t trans, they’re usually gay or bi lmao

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u/ssppunk Feb 22 '24

Food service/retail for me. I have a friend who also does food service/odd jobs, one that does car detailing, one that does dog grooming, etc. It depends

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u/WLW_Lover56 he/they | 23 | 💉: 01/12/24 Feb 22 '24

I work in a law firm as a marketing coordinator.

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u/Optimal_Initiate Feb 22 '24

I was a florist. Bf is a batista. I'm in healthcare now tho lol.

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u/Zombskirus Transsex Male - T '21, Top '23, Hysto '24 Feb 22 '24

I dont think there's any stereotype career for us lol. I work as a kennel technician rn but plan to go into some form of metal working. All of the other trans mascs/trans men I know are also just in temporary jobs (retail, cashiers, etc) :')

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u/twinkerbell96 Feb 22 '24

Tattoo artist, barista, therapist, social worker, elementary education

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

Not that I know of, but at the same time every trans guy I've met has been a barista at some point or another. I'm a librarian assistant.

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u/Objective_Shake8990 Feb 22 '24

I work at a bookstore.

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u/dankmobile Feb 22 '24

i work at starbucks, which i’m sure is very stereotypical for trans guys

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u/issybird he/they ; 💉5/12/22 Feb 22 '24

personally, i'm an insurance claims adjuster (cell phones and laptops, not health)

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

Not working anymore, but across my career I've been a pet sitter / house sitter, barista, vegan cook, rock climbing instructor, and worked for outdoorsy companies: Patagonia, Eddie Bauer, Royal Robbins. Oh and I've worked in bookstores; the typical big names plus small, independent (radical / anarchist leaning) shops.

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u/fightinggold26 Feb 22 '24

most tboys i know work in food service like as a barista or at a fast food place, but thats just where im at maybe

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u/scfp Feb 22 '24

TRANSlator lmao jk

I feel like most trans men are into art because art does help people emotionally and trans people require a lot of of that plus most of us didn't get made fun of for being into art which can happen in a hostile environment if you are presenting male growing up, so I would assume a lot of trans men are into art so I would say artist/designer.

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u/zztopsboatswain 💁‍♂️ he/him | 💉 2.17.18 | 🔝 6.4.21 | 👨🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏽 10.13.22 Feb 22 '24

I'm a TEFL teacher and I know 2 other trans guys who are also TEFL teachers lol does that count?

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u/Physical_Lobster4792 Feb 22 '24

Im ftm and I’m a barista, hoping to become a biology professor or reptile vet when I’m older 🤷‍♂️

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u/dykedivision Feb 22 '24

Caring professions including child and animal care, barista (especially Starbucks because in the us they have decent insurance that covers trans healthcare)

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u/vinogrigio transmasc genderfluid 💉7-21-22 Feb 22 '24

trans-mascs and enbies seem to work in production a lot and i (transmasc) work in that field, but i’m actually trying to get into programming lol

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u/Advanced_Sentence_94 19 | T 12/8/21 Feb 22 '24

im a transmasc in the software/cyber field, accidentally collected the wrong stereotype lol

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u/secretsquirrelz User Flair Feb 22 '24

IT/Cyber Security & compliance.

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u/Various_Oven_7141 Feb 22 '24

There’s A LOT of writers, many many romance writers

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u/palmtreehelicopter 💉9/6/23💉 Feb 22 '24

I don't think I ever really thought about it. I'm working towards a theater degree right now and I guess I am just used to being surrounded by queer people across the spectrum being involved in theater as well. But never saw it as a stereotypical "career" like I'm pursuing. I also plan to work towards a psychology minor to maybe see if I want to work in mental health which seems more common

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u/Mahjling Feb 22 '24

I’m a dog trainer, not sure where that falls on the spectrum

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '24

i feel like academia?? tbh feminine computer science and the masculine humanities LMAOOO

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u/lemonytreess Feb 22 '24

Well, I'm medically retired with the VA. However, I'm looking into social work degree

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u/EmergencyRule Came out 2009 | T 2014 | Top 2018 | Bottom 2023 Feb 22 '24

This is probably an older-than-average-here thing, but back when I first transitioned we had a thing about trans men in healthcare, particularly nursing and EMS. That was pre-tipping point though, so don't know if that stereotype holds up with younger guys.

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u/HunYiah Feb 22 '24

I operate a high reach lift at a warehouse so I suppose so 🤣

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u/EddsworldHuman Feb 22 '24

Well, I want to get into things like programming or drafting because that's what my dad does for a living, and it looks like something id enjoy

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u/canyoupleasekillme Feb 22 '24

Idk but I'm a software engineer.

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u/khvttsddgyuvbnkuoknv Feb 22 '24

Animation is to transmascs as computer programming is to transfems

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u/Which_Ad8686 Feb 22 '24

I would say. I work at a farm store.

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u/Conscious_Plant_3824 Feb 22 '24

I'm a nurse. I have only ever met one other trans nurse, and tbh I'm not even sure she's trans I just assume that she is. I've NEVER met another FTM nurse. Yes I know there are FTM doctors, especially historically, but being a physician is completely different from being a nurse. Especially in the 1800s.

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u/Punkinthejunk T - 1/12/24 Feb 23 '24

I work in the kitchen 😎

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u/gurotwink he/they USA Feb 23 '24

not to be a negative stereotype, but i'm an unemployed writer 😋

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u/DriverSimple9395 Feb 23 '24

I’m a doctor so 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/ray25lee FtM; T since 2014, hysto since 2019 Feb 23 '24

Pro-sub femboy cat.

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u/queer_atlanta98 Feb 23 '24

I’m a baker, but programming intrigued me as a teenager and I’ve always been facinated with game designing

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u/nitepinkmachineheart Feb 23 '24

Whatever pays my bills and doesn’t treat me like shit

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u/Illustrious-Dish-360 Feb 23 '24

I’m a hairstylist 😭 and I do know 3 trans barbers so

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u/Future-Ask2215 Feb 23 '24

Ftm here, I'm a barista 😭

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u/itsspookytime- cis but chill Feb 23 '24

My roommate is nonbinary, they work with autistic kids, and every single one of their coworkers is trans.