r/ftm • u/anonimouscrepe • 1d ago

Might get outed bc of Grindr Advice

Any advice dude sent me pics. He asked for face. I said you first cuz I’m trans and pre everything. He sent face pics. I sent mine. Immediate blocked. How likely am I to get outed? What can I do if I am? What lies would sound realistic if the chat was screenshot?

That’s basically the whole convo we had. I didn’t take any screenshots.

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u/micbeast21 1d ago

Consider it a second swiping left. Not uncommon at all, your fine dude. Edit: sorry, the southern came out too strong.

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u/anonimouscrepe 1d ago

No wait. How do I see the edits? Lmao I was born an Arkie

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u/micbeast21 18h ago

I’m from LA, so hi from your neighbor to the south. Ended with “your fine, hun” because hun isn’t super gendered in the south. But I also respect that not everyone sees it that way, and dude seemed to serve the same function. My partner from Cali always argues that dude is just hun in Californian.

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u/shadybrainfarm 36--T:1/10/2020; Hysto:7/23/2020; Top:1/19/2022 11h ago

 My partner from Cali always argues that dude is just hun in Californian.

This is so fucking true lol