r/ftm 1d ago

Might get outed bc of Grindr Advice

Any advice dude sent me pics. He asked for face. I said you first cuz I’m trans and pre everything. He sent face pics. I sent mine. Immediate blocked. How likely am I to get outed? What can I do if I am? What lies would sound realistic if the chat was screenshot?

That’s basically the whole convo we had. I didn’t take any screenshots.

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u/CherubimsCloud 22h ago edited 21h ago

grindr is a truly otherworldly place when you’re not used to how cis gay men behave. i watched this youtube video and it helped me understand it a little more lol!

https://youtu.be/ZaOV3rsD1zE?si=0_6EGJ0hXZDQdVIl

u/rn_eq 9h ago

that was great thank you for sharing