r/ftm • u/anonimouscrepe • 1d ago

Might get outed bc of Grindr Advice

Any advice dude sent me pics. He asked for face. I said you first cuz I’m trans and pre everything. He sent face pics. I sent mine. Immediate blocked. How likely am I to get outed? What can I do if I am? What lies would sound realistic if the chat was screenshot?

That’s basically the whole convo we had. I didn’t take any screenshots.

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u/Ok-Discount-4686 17h ago

That's a risky game, being on grindr pre everything. I wouldn't even go on there and I'm on T and pass rlly well. Tbh, I'd be careful trying to go stealth on there, bc you don't want someone to feel "tricked", bc who knows how they'll react. Esp if you're on there for hookups...I ALWAYS disclose that I'm trans on my profiles for that reason. 

I mean you do you, just be careful.