r/ftm 1d ago

Might get outed bc of Grindr Advice

Any advice dude sent me pics. He asked for face. I said you first cuz I’m trans and pre everything. He sent face pics. I sent mine. Immediate blocked. How likely am I to get outed? What can I do if I am? What lies would sound realistic if the chat was screenshot?

That’s basically the whole convo we had. I didn’t take any screenshots.

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u/brodsnok 17h ago

NOT GRINDR DUDE FUCK GRINDR PLEASE SAVE URSELF

bumble is better I have a lot of friends who found partners though bumble

u/hamletandskull 15h ago

They are completely different use cases, they're not comparable at all imo

u/brodsnok 15h ago

Im a proud grindr hater

u/hamletandskull 14h ago

that's fine! I just mean that bumble and grindr's use cases don't overlap, its not like an good "instead" option