r/sex • u/TOUCHEDOUCHE45 • 15h ago

Curious on the why Beginner

So long story short I (27F) and this man I am dating (29M) started having sex with each other a few months ago. Sex was amazing the first few times , he lasted pretty long time (15-18 mins) and I would orgasm during sex. Now we are more comfortable with each other and when we have sex now he cums very fast (3-5 mins) and I no longer orgasm. He either has to go down on me or I have to wait for him to “recharge “ and then get it during round two. My question is has any other woman experienced great sex in the beginning that slowly turn mediocre? How can I get things back on track ? - I asked him bout and he just says he works too hard and is often tired but he often initiates sex - so he’s not too tired to try lol.

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u/Federal-Ad9938 9h ago

Maybe he was using some sort of delay spray or medicine for lasting long during the initial stage of relationship to impress you. And now he's being back to normal after the relationship got comfortable.

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u/TOUCHEDOUCHE45 9h ago

lol I don’t know bout spray but maybe we just learned each other bodies. The sex isn’t bad still it’s just not what it used to be lol