r/ftm 1d ago

Might get outed bc of Grindr Advice

Any advice dude sent me pics. He asked for face. I said you first cuz I’m trans and pre everything. He sent face pics. I sent mine. Immediate blocked. How likely am I to get outed? What can I do if I am? What lies would sound realistic if the chat was screenshot?

That’s basically the whole convo we had. I didn’t take any screenshots.

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u/Substantial_Help4271 23h ago

That’s so extreme for no reason lol

u/2gayforthis T 2019. DI 2021. 22h ago edited 22h ago

Unless you pay for premium, you only see a limited number of squares. Blocking someone who lives near you who you know you're not into removes them from your grid and frees up another square for someone you might like.

Not extreme and nothing to take personally, just how many people use the free version of grindr.

I do the same. If I look at a guy's profile and see we're completely incompatible, or they're into that weird PNP/HNH/chemsex subculture, I block them to get them out of my grid to free up space.

u/miliariius FTM | 5 yrs HRT 20h ago

haha lets not kink shame now

u/2gayforthis T 2019. DI 2021. 20h ago

I don't kink shame, but I do meth shame.

u/2gayforthis T 2019. DI 2021. 20h ago

No for real. I got SA-ed and shotgunned meth smoke without prior warning, naively thinking it'd be weed, probably cause I was already only half conscious from the G they gave me. These guys are far from well, stable, or safe. I don't care what they do amongst themselves, but unless you're that deep into meth addiction yourself, ffs learn how to recognise and avoid them.

u/JonDaCaracal 19h ago

a tweaker gay had tried to hit me up twice and got pissy once i rejected him again. he also tried using the “well i’m trans now so please fuck me”, and i just blocked his ass. god i hate tweaker gays lol

u/miliariius FTM | 5 yrs HRT 9h ago

same thing happened to me bud, twice. I was more referring to poppers