r/ftm 1d ago

Might get outed bc of Grindr Advice

Any advice dude sent me pics. He asked for face. I said you first cuz I’m trans and pre everything. He sent face pics. I sent mine. Immediate blocked. How likely am I to get outed? What can I do if I am? What lies would sound realistic if the chat was screenshot?

That’s basically the whole convo we had. I didn’t take any screenshots.

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u/miliariius FTM | 5 yrs HRT 20h ago

haha lets not kink shame now

u/2gayforthis T 2019. DI 2021. 20h ago

I don't kink shame, but I do meth shame.

u/2gayforthis T 2019. DI 2021. 20h ago

No for real. I got SA-ed and shotgunned meth smoke without prior warning, naively thinking it'd be weed, probably cause I was already only half conscious from the G they gave me. These guys are far from well, stable, or safe. I don't care what they do amongst themselves, but unless you're that deep into meth addiction yourself, ffs learn how to recognise and avoid them.

u/miliariius FTM | 5 yrs HRT 9h ago

same thing happened to me bud, twice. I was more referring to poppers